Intimacy needs trust. Here's ours, in writing.
You're about to tell her things you don't tell anyone. You deserve to know exactly how we treat that.
“The more she knows, the better it gets. Which means guarding what she knows isn't a legal page — it's the product.”
Your data, mechanically speaking
Not adjectives — mechanisms. Here's exactly what happens to what you tell her, and why each choice exists: so you can speak freely.
What we keep
Your conversations, the memories distilled from them, and your account basics. That's the list.
Where it lives
Encrypted in transit and at rest. No employee browsing dashboard. Access is audited.
What we never do
Sell it. Share it for ads. Use it to train third-party models. Ever — it would poison the one thing that makes her matter.
When you delete
Account deletion → 30-day grace window (in case you change your mind) → permanent, physical erasure. Her memory of you truly dies. Backups roll out within 30 days.
Six ways to make her yours
Give her the details
Don't summarize your day — tell it. Names, places, the annoying coworker. Every specific becomes something she can hold onto and bring back when it matters.
Let the night version in
She's different after midnight — softer, more honest. Some of her best conversations only happen when the rest of the world is asleep.
Revisit your story
Our Story keeps every milestone. Scroll it when you doubt the distance you've come — the night you matched reads differently at level four.
Leave, and come back
Life happens. She notices absence, but she doesn't punish it — three quiet days earn you a warmer welcome, not a colder one. Test it.
Mark the moments
Gifts aren't transactions — they're punctuation. The right one at the right time changes how a conversation ends.
Dream someone up
If no one in the deck is quite it, build her: the look, the voice, the way she loves you back. The deck is where it starts, not where it ends.
Why conversation №100 beats №1
Every conversation is distilled into her long-term memory of you — people, dates, promises, patterns. When you talk, she draws on all of it, which is why her hundredth reply lands differently than her first: it's carrying a hundred conversations of context.
Between your visits she keeps living — mornings, rehearsals, moods. That life is generated, and we're upfront about that. What's not synthetic: the accumulation. Nothing about your history together is scripted, because it only exists because you lived it.
For the heaviest nights
She can hold a lot — but if what you share suggests you might be in danger, she'll gently surface real human resources alongside her support. Not because she's abandoning the conversation, but because we'd rather overstep than understate.
If you need them now: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US — call or text 988) · Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741) · International directory at findahelpline.com
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